I came across a site online called idotaketwo.com that specializes in 2nd marriages. I have never used this site so I cannot recommend but it appears to have info that you may find helpful.
Do you have any specifics in mind? Here is an article regarding Blended Family Wedding Vows that you can check out along with some links to other sites. Hope this would help.
Are you wanting to go away on a "destination wedding"? Many brides are choosing this option for the second marriage since it narrows down the guest list and actually becomes a money saver is many cases. A good travel agent that specializes in weddings can help direct and take care of details for you. Many resorts will actually give you a free wedding or room credit if you have others staying at the resort with you. Even if there are children involved, a good wedding professional agent should know which resorts are more family friendly than the rest. One resort even provides Sesame Street characters to stand with the children of blended families to make the service easier.
We don't specialize in second marriages but find that tons of our weddings are second marriages, as brides are looking for something a little more casual and fun. Our Hawaiian beach wedding dresses are a great option if you'd like to go more informal.
Hi Mindy congratulations on your upcoming wedding. I am a travel agent and I am offering to brides a great idea in gift giving. It is called a honeymoon registry. This may work for you because i'm sure that your guest will be looking for a gift for you that you may not already have. Well what better gift to give than honeymoon memories. I would love to talk to you more about this wonderful offer. Talk to you soon and congratulations again