Why He Proposed to His Girlfriend

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Now ladies! We all want to know what the secret is to getting our men to propose! lol

For this article we thought we would change it up for you, our readers. We interviewed an anonymous male who gave us his encounter on “why he proposed to his girlfriend”. He’s sweet words prove that there are very good guys out there and ones who are not afraid to speak of how they feel. This surely is a gentleman who adores he’s fiance.

“I can’t put my hand on one reason to ever want to propose to your woman. It has to be a number of different things. To be honest at the age of 26 I was ready to make that big commitment and I never in a million years would have thought I’d be ready at this age.

I believe when you find ‘The One’ or ‘The One’ finds you, it changes everything. As a man, she will end up being your backbone. No matter how many times I try to deny it, women run the house hold. It’s a fact!! (Although I will NEVER tell her that). Having had so many conversations with women in their own relationships, I have come to realise how women think and operate.

So when I really believe I’m in charge and have thought of something great to do within our relationship, 8 out of 10 times she has already thought about or suggested it. Annoying, but the truth and to be honest… I wouldn’t want it any other way. Women are made that way, so whatever!

So what actually made me want to propose? First and foremost, I love the woman like crazy. She is my everything…. and I know this because at times I cannot function without her. Let’s be honest here… Men are not that great at the small things like multitasking, women are. So when I lose my cool and start panicking for whatever reason, I can guarantee she will be able to cope with whatever is thrown at us. To a certain degree, I guess that makes her slightly stronger than I am mentally.

To be a bit more specific at the main reasons why I proposed. It’s all about the small things. For example: Lying in bed and getting my head, neck and face stroked while watching TV, coming home and finding my dinner waiting for me, special treats and underwear outfits for sexual occasions, her relationship with my side of the family and how well she gets on with them, her intelligence and the ambition she has to always do better, her ‘get up and go’ attitude… this leads to her not relying on me to do things that ‘Men should be doing’. So she would change a light bulb, take the bin out; help put together a wardrobe and chest of drawers.

To most people, these may not mean anything, but to me they do. I need a woman I can rely on. A woman that thinks for herself, but trusts my opinions just as much.

What counts most of all apart from love is being able to see your future with this woman. When I think about anything that I plan to achieve in the future; where I’d like to be, what I’d like to be doing, she is always in the picture. To me that is everything. I can’t see myself being with another woman and don’t want to grow old with any other woman. So there you have it. Once I started to feel that way, there was only one way to go and that was down on one knee”.