Tips For Writing The Maid of Honor or Best Man's Toast/Speech

What makes a well composed wedding speech/toast?

Using your tribute as an opportunity to bear witness to the good character of the Bride and Groom as well as expound upon what is significant about this particular union.

Tell the story of the Bride or Groom from your perspective.

Strike a balance between feelings and facts.

Link the passages of your toast cohesively, building to a satisfying conclusion.

Expressing something that is not your usual way of speaking? Consider using literary, musical, or poetic references and quotations.

Five things the toast/speech must do:

I. Tell us who you are in relationship to the Bride or Groom.

2. Paint a vivid picture of the couple you are celebrating.

3. Highlight either the bride or groom's journey to this day.

4. Share your thoughts and feelings about why they are so well matched.

5. Conclude with a blessing or wish that emanates from the themes already touched upon in the toast.