Scarlet Intimates Exclusive "Must Have" Wedding Checklist

          Exclusive “Must Have” Wedding Checklist

There is sooo much to be done in what seems to be such little time. The stress and anxiety is tremendously overwhelming as the newly engaged are trying to prepare for the most expressive experience of a lifetime. The days are counting down since the announcement of the engagement and you now feel like the circus ring leader that must produce the ultimate dream wedding for yourself, your partner, as well as friends and family.

Scarlet Intimates knows what a perfect wedding looks like. Let us help you relax, de-stress and create the ultimate wedding experience from start to finish with this exclusive wedding checklist. To eliminate some of that stress and anxiety; Scarlet Intimates created a near perfect checklist of things that must be done to prepare the most perfect of occasions. But first, we have to stress the importance of taking care of yourself. You are Not any good for anyone else in the stressful state that you may be in right now. Breathe. Everything is going to be perfect. After All, you've just been asked by the person of your dreams to be their forever.

➺Now that you have relaxed, at least a bit , you need to identify and list what qualities you see that are or were entailed in the perfect wedding. If you are not sure, pinterest.com offers an array of great ideas. Furthermore, you need to evaluate what the pair of you are most interested in as well as what the both of your personal styles and tastes are, so that you can incorporate them into your wedding. Incorporate a bit of the both of you. This step is important! This is going to be the most perfect moment for the pair of you as well as for your most intimate friends and family. This needs to be both intimate and personal. By incorporating both of your styles; your guests will be able to recognize and feel your personal touches on the day. This is what makes your day special and unique to the pair of you on your Wedding Day.

➺Guest List. You should list first, the people most important and close to you. These people are the people that you know with be present without a doubt. This is necessary because you need to plan a budget. Then you can list all of the possible additions at the end as you may have to reduce the amount of guests if necessary after compiling a list of your wedding party. Your wedding party list should consist of all of the bridesmaids, groomsmen and family members that will be incorporated in the actual wedding. They are incorporated in the list but different from the guests. Once you have a total headcount for both wedding party members plus the guests, you need to complete a mailing list and budget based on that number total.

➺Budgeting the Wedding! This too, is a personal endeavor. Sit down with each other and brainstorm resources that will be allocated and incorporated into this event. Make sure to list all of the necessities so that you can realistically stick to the budget without getting stressed out in the end. After listing all of the must have’s; prioritize to make it more realistic, if necessary. Things to consider may be:

Location of Wedding Venue

Location of Reception Venue, if different

Guest List- How many can/will attend? Wedding Party- How many will be included in actual wedding ceremony?

Invitations for family and friends

The Wedding Cake

Catering and Decorations

The Dress

The Suit

The Bridesmaids and Groomsmen

Music and Entertainment Budget

Special Undergarments ( Must Haves)

Photography

Flowers

Hair and Makeup

Accessories (shoes, jewelry, lingerie)

Transportation Just to name a few… and anything else that you will need that is special to you on this very important day!

➺While we're talking about budget, lets think about the actual day. There will be photography as well as video being shot by someone whether professional or not and it is highly recommended as well as a fun date for the pair of you to take a dance class. As you will be looked upon the entire day, you will want to be prepared with the right song and dance for the day; especially if you know that this day will be documented. This brings us to our next section, Music.

➺Music is essential on your Wedding Day. Music sets the tone and mode of the event. You will need to prepare a Music Playlist for the Professional Musician of choice. You should ALWAYS check and compare ratings and price as well as get both a contract and receipt for services so that this swift business relationship can be documented . It is wise to know the experience, expertise and ratings of the person in charge of this powerful mood setting atmosphere engager.

➺Selecting a location should be on the top of your priority list. If you don't have a location, than you' most likely don't have a wedding, right! This area can be the most intimate of the day so finding the perfect place that defines your level of style and wedding is of most importance. Some ideas can be:

A Beachfront                                    A Cottage

A City or Town Garden                     A Villa

A Country Club                                A Mansion

A Favorite Bar                                  An Event Center

A Bed and Breakfast                        A Hotel

A Studio                                          A Far Away Destination

A Theme Park                                  A Chapel or Church

And these are just to name a few. Depending on your budget, there are lots of great ideas that you can select to host your special day. Also, be aware of the timing of the season. During the winter months you may want to plan an indoor wedding; maybe mid afternoon, as it gets cold and dark early in those months. Or an early morning or mid evening for the summer months, as you don not want to be stuck in a scorching hot mid day wedding held in the summer months. This could be uncomfortable to you, your guests, and your cake selection. Just be sure to book ahead of time so that you can plan the rest of your wedding accordingly.

➺The Invitations will be the next item on your list as you now have booked a set time and place to house your special event. The invitations should be set out way in advance so that your guests have time to prepare their schedules to accommodate this special day into their busy lives. Invitations can be so personal or generic. Depending on your style and budget, invitations set the theme and imagination of the receiver. For example, if you send the recipient of the invitation a card with grapes lining all corners; they may assume that the wedding is going to be housed at a local vineyard. They may feel that this is going to be a more formal event; with this selection of invitation. Although, you may have chosen to do a less formal event ,say, held in your parents backyard. So you can see where the invitation kind of sets the stage for what the guest may choose to wear to your wedding based on the invitations theme.

➺The Wedding Dress… Finding the perfect wedding dress is essential to completing your day. The Dress that you choose from the heart will make your newly other as well as your guest sigh in Enchantment. Although this may be one of the more daunting tasks; it is also the most intimate task of all. Please keep in mind that your dream dress and body type may differ, however, with the right wedding dress professional, you can find the dress that is flattering to your body type and add embellishments that make it the perfect dream gown of all time. Be careful not to get lost in the dress nor in the accessories that you choose to accompany it. Bring a friend or family member for support and guidance.

➺The undergarments are important as well. You will want sexy, sensual, and alluring undergarments but you need to make sure that they all combine tastefully with your dress. There are many styles to choose from which include but are not limited to:

The Garter Belt

The High Waist Shaper

The Corset

The Panty that comes in all shapes, sizes, and fabric materials

The Bra that also comes in many shapes, sizes, and fabric materials

The Stockings (Important)

The “Undergarment Bag” that houses all of the goodies for the perfect night!

Scarlet Intimates offers an array of intimate apparel and wedding novelties that match nearly every budget. The Corset is the most popular item that we sell for wedding days and casual wear. The corset is a beautiful and sexy garment that accentuates an hour glass shape or can create one. Corsets have been used for centuries to shrink the waist and increase the bust. Corsets can be either classy, flashy, or functional. Finding the right size, however, is the trick. This can be achieved by properly measuring their current waist and order a size at least 4 inches smaller. The length of the torso is important. Some women have a short torso and some have a larger torso, thus making sure the torso size is correctly fitted is important as well. The measurement of the torso should be long enough to cover the torso length. Spanx are used widely everyday as an effective shapewear; like the corset but it is an undergarment. Corsets on the other hand are versatility worn in many sexy and appealing ways such as fashion wear, outerwear, underwear, or shapewear. There are many celebrities that have been seen using this romantic vintage body shaping fashion statement. The panty, bra, or girdle can also be a suitable sensual option. The high waisted panty is a great way to provide shape control, yet look sleek and sexy. Paired with a stunning laced bra is an exceptional option for under the dress alluring honey moon apparel with any size and shape. Be sure that your fabrics chosen for your undergarments are suitable for the weather, mood, and dress type. Most brides choose lace, mesh, or silk as sensual undergarment fabric options.

When selecting a bra, make sure that the straps are not going to be hanging on or around the exterior of the dress. This is distasteful and people will notice . This will take away from the beauty of the dress. There are many options if you need to go strapless or braless. Pasties are a great option to cover the nipple area of the breasts if you choose to go braless. They are also a fun and exciting surprise when the dress is removed! There are also breast enhancer pads if you are concerned with filling in the bra space of your dress, if necessary. In addition, there are nipple concealers as well that work great if you decide that a bra would ruin the look of your dress.

Garter Belts are over the top... SEXY! Paired with a matching bra and stocking; this alluring look will do nothing but justice to your new other. Garter belts have been around for centuries; dating back to ancient weddings. They have been used as keepsakes or used traditionally as a form of ceremonial tradition where the groom removes the garter from his new wife's leg and tosses it into the reception for the singles to catch. The catching of this piece symbolizes that the one who catches it will be the next to be married.

Hosiery… Stockings, often accompanied or paired with a garter belt is sexy and tasteful as well. If you choose to wear stockings under the dress or just plan on purchasing a pair to complete a lingerie look on your honeymoon; this garment staple is a great option to at least put into the Undergarment Honeymoon Bag-just incase. Hosiery is so versatile and when looking to be alluring and sexy; stockings have always been a great option to add some spicy sex appeal, no matter what size or shape you are.

The Shoe… Depending on your dress, the shoe is going to be a key fashion piece. The shoe also needs to be comfortable as well. The shoe needs to match extensively with the dress and the pair should not overpower the dress. If you are not comfortable in heels; which are super sexy but ,not suited for all wedding apparel or occasions; there are many other options available. There is the open toe, closed toe, ballerina flat, barefoot, heel with straps, semi heel, platform, or pump options. When choosing the pair; choose comfort over looks; to an extent. After all ,you will be wearing them all day for a long period of time. You need to look exceptionally gorgeous but realistically, you need to be comfortable to enjoy the day as well.

➺Accessories are a must to complete your bridal look but remember; your dress should be the main event and overkill of accessories is a No-No. This takes away from both you and the dress. Be conservative when selecting choice pieces to complete your look. Don't loose yourself or your dress in your accessory choices. Choose either a quaint head piece or a veil, or maybe a delicate pair of earrings and a small charmed necklace with or without pearls, diamonds, or stones. Some brides choose an armband or a small borrowed bracelet. Don't put any jewels on your hands on your wedding day. This will take from the ring! Unless this is religious practice in your culture.

➺Photography can be a budget drainer unless you know someone who is handy with a camera. Be careful though because you can only capture this day once. If you don't get it captured the first time, you may lose it forever! I always encourage couples to make at least a small budget to pitch into this area as these are your keepsakes for yourselves, your families, and your future families, if you are planning them. In any case, there are many options and styles of photographers. Choose the ones that you find based on the types of pictures that you are seeking for your wedding. Some prefer the vintage looking photos. Some prefer very bright beachside natural themed photos. Know your taste and find a photographer that can capture it. Get reviews and ask for samples of work already done. Specify your schedule and make sure all is matching up with the photographer. Also, comparison shop and negotiate. Some great photographers are freelance and will offer a good price.

Bachelor/Bachelorette Party... This is a must! After all, you are getting married and really going to be settling down and starting a life with your significant other. This party is going to signify what many joke as you last day of freedom. Do this up Big, make it fun and make it last! Scarlet Intimates offers an array of adult novelties from shot glasses, to naughty veils, and party hats and pins, as well as naughty pastas and gag gifts specifically for this event. There is also a registry so that the bride or groom can request certain specialty items that can be sent directly to the address of choice in discreet packaging.

➺Wine and other Alcoholic Beverages will need to be incorporated into the budget. Wine, champagne, beer, or other beverages will be a major cost as well. Plan accordingly, when, where and how much alcohol will be incorporated into this event. Think wedding day, bachelor-bachelorette party, reception, etc. Local vineyards are great places for you to do some wine tasting and really unwind through the stress of planning a wedding. It is recommended that you take every opportunity to indulge in this exercise. Cheers!

➺The Wedding Cake should be one of those intimate decisions for the pair of you. Sit down and research local bakeries that specialize in wedding cakes and make an appointment. Do not wait until the last minute. You will need to plan ahead for this one and be prepared to go to many bakery sites before making a decision. Check pricing, reviews, timing of completion, and deposit amounts as well as of course, the taste that you are going to share on your special day. Not all bakers are created equal. Not all bakers have the same skill and perfection to detail that you need on your special day. Take caution and enjoy! Same goes for Catering. Sit down and think about your budget and what you can and want to afford for an ultimate dining experience. Think about what will be served, Will it be buffet style, or restaurant style- Where everyone will be served at their seat. Think about where the buffet set up will be located, if applicable. Think about when in the reception, the food will be served. Find a catering company with a great reputation and also try some samples of the food that will be served. Look at the presentation on the plate, look at the portion sizes ,and evaluate taste and textures, then book accordingly.

➺Photo booths are fun but are not necessary They are just another add on to the day. These booths can be so much fun and it gives guests a little keepsake to take with them as they are parting. There have been weddings where a booth was set up and the whole wedding party wore fake mustaches and went into the booth and took silly photos. This makes for a great time and a great keepsake photo for all involved.

➺Hotels and Arrangements.. Out of town guests may have concerns with where to stay while out of town. It is not always feasible to stay with friends and family so having a great hotel preference for your guests is necessary. Seek out a few hotels, visit them, and ask to physically see the rooms. Try to find a hotel that is nice, well kept and clean, cost effective , and one that possible offers breakfast and pool accommodations. Also, seek out the hotel with the most comparable proximity to you and the wedding venue; so that they can have some access to you and the event without being inconvenienced too much while they are enjoying their stay. In addition, talk to the hotel manager about a multi-room discount, if you are referring many of your guests to accompany rooms in the same hotel.

➺Limo Services … are an add on but give an additional fun and classy presence to an event with a large group. This saves on carpooling, seeking parking, and also helps to get guests to destinations at the same time without confusion. Limos are highly recommended if in the budget; as this is another awesome way to just sit back and delegate tasks so that the Bride and Groom have no worries and can enjoy the day. Also, with alcohol involved, limos are a great way for guest to sit back and have a great time but also to drink responsibly.

➺Hair and Makeup are important but can be done with or without a large budget. Makeup and hair need to be evaluated based on the dress and theme of the evening as well as the season. Local stores that sell makeup often give free makeovers or makeovers that are of minimal costs so that you can try out the makeup of choice. Macy’s and Mac do this for a minimal cost. Local beauty schools offer this service as well. You may also call a professional , which costs a little more or use someone that you know that has some skill in this area.

➺Bridesmaids and Groomsmen Attire should be sophisticated yet not overpower the Bride and Grooms Attire. Bridesmaids Dresses should be complemented of the Bride and the Groomsmen should be complimented on the Groom. Both parties should never complicate the Bride nor Grooms Attire. All of the parties should be matching and meticulously assimilated as a Unit of The Wedding Party.

➺Last but not least is the Flowers. Find a local florist and tell them the season and the style of wedding that you are planning. They will have a host of great ideas about what is in season as well as what flower specifies what ambiance tailored to your special day and theme. They are professionals in this area. Tell them the budget as well so that they may come up with the most cost effective and beautiful floral setting for your special event.

Scarlet Intimates is an Exclusive Online Retail Store Offering Adult Apparel and Novelties. We have graciously helped many couples find the most intimate of apparel and products for their special day. We pride ourselves in calling Scarlet Intimates, the pre and post wedding professionals when referring to intimate apparel selections and bachelor/bachelorette novelties. We are the ultimate one stop shop for honeymoon apparel and novelties. Let us help you plan and execute the most sensual and alluring wedding experience possible!

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