Jeff Madama's Blog – February 2014 Archive (4)

RSVP cards can do more than assist you in determining a head count for your wedding and reception.  They can double to promote the dance party.  Designate a space on the card whereby your guests can request a song they would like to dance to.  This gesture sends a message to your guests that you wish to include them in a fun night of dancing by taking their music tastes into consideration.  The more encompassing you are willing to be with the music, the greater the likelihood your guests…

Seems obvious, but must be stated given the fact that rolling out the right beats is a critical fun factor at the reception and is what drives guests to the dance floor.  You do not want to observe an empty dance floor, if, for example, the Chicken Dance were to be played.  It is highly recommended you talk to your DJ about your do-not-play list.  When consulting with your DJ, discuss your favorite genres, know your guests and discuss whether or not they will be permitted to make…

Bridal toasts are an important part of every wedding reception and when those speaking plan accordingly, their prose can have a lasting impact.  It is suggested that a toast does not run too long as it can put a drag on the evening.  A good toast is based on quality, not longevity.  It is suggested that anyone who takes the mic cap their speech to a max of two minutes and withhold longer narratives for a different setting, perhaps during the rehearsal…

Electrify Your First Dance

During your first dance, you will take center stage with all eyes fixed upon you which transcends into an opportunity to "shock em" with an unexpected twist.  Picture this..... your first dance begins to Etta James "At Last" as you slowly and quietly embrace this special time together and then suddenly you bust into a fast rock number or s sexy Latin or Swing step.  Your guests will be astounded and you will have ignited the…