You see, my boyfriend and I are planning on getting married but can't afford to. We have been thinking about just getting the license and being married and then later on our anniversary when we can having the bigger, wedding/ ceremony. Is this a bad idea? Does anyone have any ideas on how to have a wedding that's not going to cost and arm and a leg? I want to give my fiance/ boyfriend the wedding he deserves but somethings have come up and we can't do what he wants. You see we have a beautiful son together and he is supposed to ship out before the date we had set to get married. Can any one give me advice on what to do? He wanted a summer wedding that co-insides with our first date but he'll be gone by then... I need to do something for him this fall or winter...